Is my relationship healthy Question 2

Question 2

What does your boy/girlfriend think of the way you dress?

Is my relationship healthy Question 2

He/She often likes what I wear, and it’s up to me to chose how I dress.

That’s great! Sounds like your boy/girlfriend trusts you and is happy for you to make your own choices. Although no person or relationship is perfect, it sounds as though you’re valued and treated with respect. However, if you’re still worried about your relationship or what you’re feeling, try talking to someone you trust.

Sometimes he/she asks me to change.

That’s not good. No one has the right to tell you how to dress or put you down for what you’re wearing. It sounds as though things are not quite right in your relationship. You might want to get help and speak to someone you trust or call one of the helpline numbers.

He/she often criticises how i dress and tells me what to wear and what not to wear

This doesn’t sound good at all. No one has the right to tell you how to dress or put you down for what you are wearing. It’s possible things could be quite bad within your relationship. You really should consider getting help: speak to someone you trust. Abuse is never acceptable. It’s not your fault and you don’t deserve this.