Is my relationship healthy Question 4

Question 4

Has he/she ever hit,slapped or pushed you?

Is my relationship healthy Question 4

No, never

That’s great! Although no person or relationship is perfect it sounds as though you’re valued and treated with respect . No one has the right to hit , slap or push you. However, if you still need to talk to someone about your relationship or what you’re feeling, call one of the helpline numbers or speak to someone you trust.

Yes, but just once

That’s not good. No one has the right to slap, hit or push you. If it’s happened once it could happen again – even if the person who did it promises it won’t happen again . It sounds as though things are not quite right in your relationship. You might want to get help and speak to someone you trust or call one of the helpline numbers

Quite a few times

This really isn’t good. No one has the right to hit, push or slap you. It is against the law to hurt another person physically. If it has already happened a few times, it is very possible that you’re boy/girlfriend will physically hurt you again. The violence might also get worse. You should really consider getting help: why not speak to someone you trust. This abuse is never acceptable, and remember it’s not your fault. You don’t deserve to be treated like this.