Is this domestic abuse Is this domestic abuse? A grown-up calls another grown-up names and says things to make them feel bad? YES A grown-up often pushes, kicks or hits another grown-up? YES A grown-up controls what another grown-up does, tells them what to wear or where they can go? YES A brother and sister argue about a toy or game they both want to play? No A husband won’t give his wife money or let her go to work? YES A man sends his girlfriend a text to say he loves her? No A man sends his girlfriend hundreds of texts to find out where she is and who she’s with? YES A man’s boyfriend hits him then says sorry, but it happens again? YES